Stop dating jerks
Instead they linger on forever, tendrils of optimism that keep the interested party constantly on their toes.Back burners aren’t a method of evasion predicated on hoping the other person finally takes the hint; back burners are a way, instead, for the uninterested party to have their cake and eat it too, often while exerting the least amount of effort possible. Only mildly interested in him after our first date, I let Theo languish on my back burner with little real interest.One who felt they were worth very little and that this was the only relationship they deserved. Assholes on the dating scene are those who have an over inflated ego, a sense entitlement, a need to possess and those who blame you for whatever hurt they're feeling when you upset that precarious balance.If you are consistently dating them, you can be sure of one thing.Women are sometimes drawn to jerks because they can be exciting and keep us on our toes.But not all realize they're dating a total jerk until all the signs are laid out right in front of them.Some even stay in bad relationships because they're afraid of not having someone, but being alone is far better than dating a person who doesn't value you.
The same guy considered my past promiscuity an abhorrence and took it upon himself to make me hate sex, so that - in his words - I would never consider having sex with anyone else.Have you ever asked yourself ‘why do I keep attracting narcissists and jerky men’? I’m going to tell you why this happens and give you the control to stop it. I’ve coached so many women through breaking their pattern of attracting and choosing these toxic men.Well, if you are you a smart, kind, self-reliant and successful woman with a smattering of the usual insecurities…then you’re a sitting duck for these guys! Contrary to what you might think, narcissists don’t go after weak women.They want someone empathetic to attend to their child-like needs.They want someone self-sufficient so they don’t have to take care of needs.